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How it works

Readiness comes first

Matching opens only after preparation. Here's what that means in practice.

Who can join

  • Age 22 or older, verified.
  • Profile declares Man or Woman (self-declared).
  • Government ID verified, with a selfie check at the Readiness Review.
  • References and social media review, completed with your consent.
  • A statement of serious marriage intent.
  • Occupation and life stage declared.

We may ask for proof of financial status as this is a consideration for some persons. You or others may prefer a match in the same financial bracket. This info will not be shared but may be used to suggest the best matches where necessary.

References and social media review

Staff review public social media for safety and conduct only, against criteria written in advance: harassment, threats, violence, fraud, or misrepresentation. Lifestyle and personal opinions are not criteria. We store the outcome, not the content reviewed.

  • ID verified
  • References
  • Encryption
  • Safety monitoring

The preparation course

About 12 weeks, eight modules in four blocks, with a coach check-in after each block.

  1. Weeks 1–3Self-awareness and mindset
    Modules 1–2
  2. Weeks 4–6Personality, communication, and conflict
    Modules 3–4
  3. Weeks 7–9Practical life planning, finances, and family planning
    Modules 5–6
  4. Weeks 10–12Relationship readiness, commitment, and love languages
    Modules 7–8

Course content is educational. It is not therapy, financial, or legal advice.

The Readiness Review

Around week 13, a professional review team looks at your preparation work and check-ins. It includes a safety and conduct check and a selfie check.

Ready — your match feed opens. Paused — you receive next steps and a return date, privately, by secure message.

Photos and privacy

Photos show who you look like now. Your selfie check is never shown; others see only a "Verified current photo" date. Photos stay private until you're Ready, and are revealed only after mutual consent.

Before matching, members appear under a pseudonym with only general details — never a name or photo.

Membership

One membership, called Chaperone, at launch. Pricing coming soon.

Begin your marriage quest with Preparation.

Join the waitlist to hear when Chaperone You opens. Pricing coming soon.