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The journey

Four chapters, one story

Six months that move from who you are, to who you're becoming, to who you'll meet.
  1. Chapter I

    Join

    Verify who you are and state what you're looking for.

    • Create an account and verify your age (22+) and government ID.
    • Provide references and consent to a references and social media review.
    • Submit your statement of serious marriage intent, written in your own words and from the heart. This is the first part of your story that other candidates will see.
    • Complete your profile and your occupation and life stage.
    • Upload your first photo.
  2. Chapter II

    Prepare

    About 12 weeks of guided preparation within a six-month membership.

    • Eight modules in four blocks, with a coach check-in at the end of each block.
    • Unfiltered everyday photo after Module 2, kept private as your baseline.
    • Updated photo after Module 6, and a short guide before your selfie check.

    Course content is educational. It is not therapy, financial, or legal advice.

  3. Chapter III

    Review

    Your Readiness Review, around week 13.

    • A professional review team looks at your preparation work and check-ins.
    • Includes a safety and conduct check and a selfie check matched to your ID and photos.
    • Ready: your match feed opens. Paused: you receive next steps and a return date, privately.
  4. Chapter IV

    Meet

    Connect with intention, with a coach alongside.

    • Express anonymous interest in members who are Ready.
    • Names and photos are revealed only when both members are Ready and both consent.
    • At least three group video meetups with a coach. In-person meetings need mutual consent and coach approval.

Your first chapter starts here.

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